Question by : Im 14 I was wondering would anyone be able to stay in contact with me if i made you the adoptive parent(s)?
I’m 14 and I just had my 2 week old baby Jacolynn and I’m trying to decide if I wanted to keep my baby or give her up for adoption?? If you say to give her up would you like to be the adoptive parent?? You would have to stay in contact with me but wen i get older I would want her back with me.. since she is my first born.
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Answer by Nicole
You need to contact an adoption agency…you can’t just decide to give the baby to someone and you have to do this legally and more likely than not you can’t just get the baby back.
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I doubt very seriously that anyone would go for that deal
That’s not how adoption works–even open adoption. If you choose to give your baby up for adoption, she’s no longer yours. You sit down with the adoptive parents and set the terms together for how often you are in contact or the type of contact you have.
Some birth parents just receive a Christmas card with photos and an update letter. Others see the baby every month, every few weeks, or receive photos every month or two. It just depends on the situation. You never get the baby back. Once you give the baby up for adoption, it’s no longer your baby and will never be yours again. You will be referred to by your name, and the adoptive parents are Mommy and Daddy. You are not.
EDIT: My aunt and uncle openly adopted my cousin. They agreed to send a holiday card to his birth mother. She decided it was too hard to get a “reminder” of him each year, so they agreed if they moved they would let her know or if she wanted to hear from them again, she would contact them.
“Hey, do the hard part of parenting and pay for all the diapers and everything and then I’ll just take them back when they stop pooping themselves, and preferably when they have their own job, OKAY?”
I hope this is a joke.
you want to temporarily give away your baby? that’s not how adoption works, you don’t just pick and choose what parts your there for as a parent and what parts you miss.
Sure, I’ll take her… I am in the UK so just box her up, stick a stamp on it ans get her over here in the next 2nd class post….
That isn’t how adoption works. I for one would not go for that deal. Not after I have loved and cared for a baby and for what? Just to give it back like all those years didn’t matter.
WHAT STATE ARE YOU IN? THINGS VARY FROM STATE TO STATE
Y!A is not the way to get adoptive parents…find an adoption agency.
Sorry you cannot just give your child away for a bit (because it is too difficult for you) only to want it back later. How stupid are you?
You cant give a baby up for adoption and just ask for him/her back later. It doesnt work that way. If your going to give the baby up for adoption, your not getting her back later when you feel like it. If you didnt want a baby until you were older, then you shouldnt have been having sex.
And besides, that baby is going to love the people raising her if she is adopted, she isnt going to know you as mommy and just come back to be your daughter 10 years from now. She wont be your daughter anymore, she will become the adoptive parents daughter.
hi i think your should keep your baby girl my sis have a four old son and she have him at 13 yaer of age . call me at 5203926305 my chastity .
You need to e-mail me and i can give you some support. I was adopted. I know a thing or two. i have two wonderful children of my own. Please e-mail me and let me help you. Also, i was adopted with an open adoption. I love seeing my bio family and spending time and holidays with them. Some of my brothers too were open adoption. they spend time/ days/nights weeks at their families homes.
You don’t get to choose, obviously by having a child at 14, you’ve shown that you make poor choices.