Question by Tena Bena: How Do i gET OVER THIS??????………?
ok im 14 yo old im a girl and when i was 3 my parents split up i have 2 older bros. and we lived with our dad but he couldn’t take care of us so we went to live w/ his mom (my grandma). she phisically abused us until i was 9. finally my dads g/f told social services so we went into foster care. then both of my bros. ended up going to juvy and i got adopted. i don’t no if i should talk to my new parents or not because i want tohave visits w/my dad (hes now in jail) and my bros but i dont want 2 hurt their feelings WHAT DO I DO??????????
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Answer by mosaic
Talk to them! They may understand more than you think. Tell them your true feelings.
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Tell them how you feel. They can either take it or leave it. If they say no, don’t push it, when you are old enough, you can see any body they you want to see.
thats a tough1 and i really wish i could give u addvice but im sorry i cant,but goodluck watever choice u make…..
Hun you have to do what you feel is right and I think you should just be honest with your new parents that you want to visit your dad and brothers. They may seem a little weird about it at first but they should accept what you need to do if they are really and truly caring about you. Good luck!!!
Tell them how you feel. But keep in mind… prison may not be the best place to see your dad.
Maybe you should wait till he gets out before you ‘rekindle’ a relationship.
Write to your brothers and ask them for there opinion.
Most important… sounds like your past had a few stumbling blocks.. keep only the GOOD things in your life.
Talk to them about it. I’m sure they will understand. After all It does have something to do with your life. He is and always will be your dad no matter what. And I think that if you want to go see him then you should. It could make things better or worse. Also if he is in the pin and hasn’t seen you in long time don’t expect much from him. If he isn’t Happy to see you that is probably because he feels stupid for what happened. But you are 14 and I think you can make some decisions by your self.
You should talk to your new parents. It shouldn’t hurt their feelings. By the way you shouldnt tell your age over the internet. Anyways I know that Jesus loves you, and is looking over you. God bless!
I would tell them… they will understand and mostly be appriciative they will let you go and see him just tell them it sounds like this is really bothering you they will understand Im sure they cant imagin being seperated from your parents…